In the last post, I shared how to move out of a fear-based way of thinking and away from the heartache of your past.
This was inspired by the quote: “Every decision we make is either based on FEAR or FAITH.”
Now I want to reveal how to move INTO a faith-based frame of mind. Here’s how to do it:
1. Look for evidence that your “love story” exists.
Look for real-life love stories of people who are in a similar situation as you. No matter what it is that you feel might stop you from getting the love you want, you can find evidence that love knows no bounds.
Start looking for positive love stories of people who are just like you. Focus on what you WANT rather than what you DON’T want. Remember, what you focus on grows.
2. Keep your heart open 100% of the time.
Being authentic and honest about what you want will automatically move you into a faith-based frame of mind.
3. Write down every success you’ve ever had – no matter how small.
Make a list of everything everyone’s ever told you that made you feel amazing. This will help you to embrace the idea that you’re lovable and of infinite value exactly as you are.
You don’t have to “fix” yourself before you’ll find the right man for you – you just have to be comfortable enough to say, “This is who I am.”
You’ll be irresistible just as you are to the right man for you – all you have to do is be the best version of yourself.
Some say that the only thing in your way to getting the love you want is YOU and your view of yourself.
If you’re pretending to be someone you’re not in an attempt to get love, not only is it exhausting – you’re wasting your own time and energy and putting up obstacles up for the RIGHT man to find you!
I believe that if you have a desire for love, you’re AUTOMATICALLY worthy! If you truly believe that you’re lovable just as you are, the right man for you will love and adore every cell of your being!
You don’t have to be “perfect” – you just have to know that you’re of infinite value. Confidence is the “universal attractant” – everyone finds confidence sexy!
Think about a decision you’re making in your life right now and ask yourself, “Am I coming from a place of FEAR or FAITH?”
Are you staying in a relationship or a job that doesn’t fulfill you because you have faith that things will improve – or out of fear that there’s nothing else out there for you?
Either answer could be true for you! The key is to be totally honest with yourself and see where you can start moving out of fear and into a faith-based frame of mind.