The Art of Getting the Commitment You Want
What if you knew exactly what to do (and what NOT to do) to easily inspire feelings of love and devotion in a man and trigger his masculine need to commit to you - and painful feelings of worry, doubt, anxiety and insecurity from wondering what a man's thinking or how he feels about you were gone forever?
When you understand how the process of commitment really works in the mind of a man (it's very different than how it is for women), getting all the love, attention, tenderness, romance, connection and commitment you want will be SO much easier than you ever imagined!
If you're struggling and frustrated because your relationship doesn't seem to be moving forward - or you keep attracting men who don't seem interested in a real committed relationship - you're not alone.
If you don't learn how relationships and commitment REALLY work for a man, you'll keep wasting your precious time and energy accidentally doing what doesn't work and sabotaging your efforts.
Does any of this sound familiar? If so, then this is probably the most important information you'll ever learn when it comes to having the loving, committed relationship you want.
Here Are The Two Biggest Mistakes Women Make When It Comes To Getting The Commitment They Want...
Mistake #1: Accidentally Chasing Him
When we find ourselves feeling anxious about where we stand with a man or where the relationship is going – it’s normal to start to worry that if we don’t show him how interested we are, he’ll think we don’t care or he’ll lose interest and drift away.
We automatically begin trying to let him know how interested we are, and the things we instinctively do unknowingly turn a man off!
We want to make sure he knows how we feel. We feel this intense “urge” to do things for him to show him how much we care.
So we become EXTRA “loving” and show him what a great woman we are. We do things like…
- • Call him to “check in” with him and touch base
- • Send him a flirty text message
- • Drive to his place because it’s more convenient for him
- • Cook him his favorite dinner
- • Call or text him because you haven’t heard from him
- • “Like” his Facebook posts
- • Get in touch because he hasn’t made plans for the weekend
- • Ask him how he feels (especially how he feels about you and the relationship)
We’re just being friendly and loving… and we do these things because we want to show him how cool, easy going and helpful we are.
We may think we actually need to “help” him. He may be shy, busy, or just clueless – and we want to make it as easy as possible for him and show him what a great woman we are.
We take on the masculine role as “pursuer” without even realizing it – and this automatically forces him into the “distance-er” role.
To a man, when we begin initiating anything – it feels like pressure to him. It dampens his desire to get closer – and he often has NO IDEA why.
He probably can’t put his finger on it, but he just isn’t “feeling it” the way he used to. He may stop calling or making plans with you – or even start saying he’s “confused” or doesn’t know if he can give you what you want.
Mistake #2: Talking About The Relationship
As women, when we talk things through, it helps us feel more connected and closer. To a man, it feels like pressure and it feels like we’re chasing him.
The only thing talking about the relationship makes a man want to do is back up and create space for himself – which makes US want to move towards him to close the gap, as soon as possible.
Typically when we want to talk to our man about the relationship it’s because we’re starting to feel anxious about losing him. It may feel like the commitment we want is slipping through our fingers.
Here’s the thing – you don’t need to talk about the relationship. The less you initiate talking about the relationship (including asking him how he feels about you), the better!
When you want to talk about the relationship, he’ll usually shut down and his feelings of attraction will start to fade instantly.
Inspiring A Man To Want To Commit To You Has NOTHING To Do With The Words You Say!
If communication is the “key” to intimacy, how could talking about the relationship push a man away?
It’s the way we instinctively go about it that makes him automatically lose attraction.
What you want to do instead to bring your man closer and create a deep connection is to focus on creating good feeling experiences with him - moment by moment.
When you learn what makes a man want to get as close as possible and stay forever - you'll find yourself feeling more happy, secure and confident. You’ll no longer spend your precious time worrying about how a man feels about you or what his intentions are.
You’ll feel more cherished and connected to him right away, because HE'LL feel compelled to move towards you and close that gap.
If you don't learn what makes a man want to get as close as possible and stay in love forever, you’ll find yourself endlessly waiting for him or wondering how he really feels about you (and if there's anything you can do to get him to give you the love you need).
You may even feel great when you’re with him - but when you’re NOT with him, you may feel anxious and insecure and start analyzing his every word and action (and unknowingly give these things the wrong meaning).
What you're about to learn can completely transform your love life and get you the commitment you want. It might feel counter-intuitive at first, but once you implement the tools and get incredible results, you'll never go back to doing things the "old" way!
Instantly Shift Your Vibe And Become So Irresistible Your Man Will Feel Compelled To Commit To You
There's one shift that transforms everything - instantly!
This is NOT about playing games, giving a man an ultimatum, or implementing superficial "strategies."
What you need to do is completely shift the relationship dynamic, which is the only way to get permanent results.
Rather than "waiting" for a man to make up his mind about you (which means you're at his mercy), it's about shifting the dynamic so YOU'RE the prize and you're the one choosing - not the other way around.
Once you start implementing these tools, you're going to feel less urgent, more peaceful and back to your empowered, confident self.
You'll finally get the commitment you want and experience what it feels like to not have to work hard for love, while your man comes closer than ever and moves the relationship forward all on his own - because it will all be HIS idea!
Once you order "The Art Of Getting The Commitment You Want" - here's what you'll get...
Instant access to all 4 audio classes - this is everything you need to get the commitment you want!
Here's some of what's covered in the program that you can INSTANTLY access...
What to do if you're starting to feel anxious and insecure in your relationship
Why you're not getting the commitment you want - and how to turn this around
The two qualities a healthy, masculine man will be drawn to on an unconscious level that will compel him to come close
How women accidentally end up creating tension rather than connection with men
What a man needs in order to move the relationship forward all on his own
Specific tools to start building trust within yourself so you radiate confidence
Understanding the way men fall in love and (it's completely different than the way women fall in love) - and how you can use this information to easily navigate your relationship
The two critical "vibes" to completely mesmerize a man and create a lasting attraction and connection with him
The two ways women prevent a deep heart-to-heart connection with a man
Understanding empowered versus wounded masculine and feminine energies, and how to heal your wounded masculine and feminine energies
What NOT to do when a man is "stalling" (even though it seems so innocent!)
The two basic needs a man has to have in order to commit to a woman forever
The difference between chemistry and intimacy in your relationship - and how to create true intimacy with your man
How your relationship with your parents may be affecting your ability to receive love from your partner (and how to start healing this)
How to get your needs met without becoming pushy, demanding or needy
Specific scripts to use and words to say that will bring a man close
How to talk to your man about what's on your mind (and words to avoid so you don't push your man away)
The 3 options you have if he doesn't step up and show you he's the man for you
The proven method we've taught our clients to empower them to get the commitment they want
"The Art Of Getting The Commitment You Want" will give you the answers and solutions you want if...
• You've been dating one particular man and you want him to take the relationship to the next level.
• You seem to attract men who come on really strong in the beginning, but pull away or disappear when things start to get serious.
• You want to create a deep heart-to-heart connection with your man so he sees you differently than any other woman - and can't wait to make you his forever!
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