Pursue YouThe key to inspiring a man’s masculine need to step up and pursue you is knowing your value and putting YOUR heart first.

This is a very different feeling and “vibe” than trying to impress a man and convince him that you’re a high-value woman or that you’d be a great partner.

The truth is, a man can’t love and respect you any more than you love and respect YOURSELF. It all starts with you.

When you truly recognize your value as a woman deep down, the way you behave and the way you speak starts to work differently – your vibe organically starts to change, and this makes you incredibly attractive!

For example, if deep down you truly know your value and you put your heart first, you’re not going to tolerate bad behavior.

You’d instinctively feel turned off if a man wasn’t treating you well.

You wouldn’t want to waste your time on a man who’s interested in other women or unsure about his feelings for you.

The most important thing about this is – you want this feeling that you know your value to be on the INSIDE, not on the outside like a wall you build up around yourself.

You don’t want to just say to a man, “I’m a high-value woman, you need to treat me like a queen. Here’s my list of requirements…”

A woman who REALLY knows her value wouldn’t need to say that. Anything you do or say to try to “get” him to realize that you’re a high-value woman is going to backfire on you.

Instead, you want to watch what he does, and you see how that makes you FEEL. 

If he’s making you happy and he contacts you regularly and keeps pursuing you, he’s doing what he’s supposed to do – he’s treating you like the high-value woman you are! 

If he stops doing these things and it starts to feel weird to you, your mentality should be, “This doesn’t feel right to me. I’m a woman who needs a certain amount of contact and maybe we’re not on the same page.”

Or, if you’re dating other men as well, he’d simply “get lost in the shuffle” since there’d be so many other men who ARE pursuing you!

It’s the way you respond to the way he acts. So you’re a high-value woman and you don’t have to do anything to make him feel it, except respond as a woman who knows her value would respond.

The right man for you will want to pursue you with absolutely NO prodding or convincing from you!

When a man shows up and starts pursuing you, you want to be warm, open, and receptive to him – you want to be an invitation.

If a man stops pursuing you, you don’t want to go into “convincing mode” and start pursuing HIM – this will decrease your value in his eyes and push him away on a deep, unconscious level.

Once you truly believe deep down that the right man for you will recognize your value (just like you do!) and pursue you all on his own – you just won’t accept anything less!

The fantastic thing about being a woman is that inspiring a man to step up and pursue you doesn’t involve any effort at all! It’s simply about BEING who you are, not “doing.”

Once you start experiencing what it’s like to be pursued by high-quality men who want to be with you because of WHO you are (rather than what you do), your vibe will shift and everything will start to organically move in the right direction.

This is where I want you to be – truly knowing your value and being pursued by men who know your value too!

If you want to build the kind of deep attraction and connection with a man that inspires his love, devotion and lifelong commitment, click here to check out my eBook, Attract The Man You Want.”


    5 replies to "How To Inspire A Man To Step Up And Pursue You"

    • Tamara

      This is sooo true!! I learned the hard way that going into convincing mode only pushes a guy further away. Thanks to your reminders like this I’m not doing that anymore and now his energy is coming towards me. 🙂

      • Helena Hart

        Hi Tamara,
        Thanks for your comment! I’m so happy to hear about the success you’ve had using the tools in my programs. Keep me posted on how everything goes for you!
        Love, Helena

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    • Claudette

      How do you ask for more consistent communication without actually asking for it ?
      Dates are going great but infrequent calls and texts in between ..I would Like it if he said good morning or good night or asked about my day

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