Here’s a letter from Julia, a member of my Effortlessly Attract Love Program, who’s discovering that masculine energy is about what a man DOES and how he treats her – and that almost any man can “step up to the plate” when given the chance. This is an incredible success story that we can all learn from. Here’s what Julia has to say…
Ever since I started following Helena’s and Rori Raye’s teachings, I’ve been more conscious of the dance of masculine and feminine energy, and I’ve learned to willingly cultivate my own femininity and be in my “girl energy” around men.
I understood that this is what attracts masculine men, and what I didn’t know was that it can also AWAKEN and bring out the masculine energy in almost any man.
I met a new man, and this time, so far I’ve done everything RIGHT. I had made a profile on a local dating site, and couple of months ago a very nice young gentleman found me.
I made a point of leaning back, being in my feminine energy, and letting him initiate everything. I had to pay attention to how I was behaving, and still, it felt really good. And it worked! I trusted it would work, but I never imagined it would work THIS well.
This guy describes himself as the quiet, shy, non-assertive type – and yet, with me, he was incredibly masculine and assertive and really went for it (and he was surprised to discover this side of himself!).
He planned all the dates, he paid, he made the reservations, he picked the places, he carried my stuff, he dealt with the cab drivers, he sent me romantic texts in between dates, he initiated every single kiss, and more…
All because I let him, because I showed him respect, because I was able to receive what he provided, because I didn’t interrupt him, and because I consciously created the space for him to be masculine and take charge.
It went really well, and I felt very happy (and I made sure to tell him that and show appreciation). It felt incredible to have all this energy coming towards me, and to know that a “masculine man” doesn’t need to look like the macho Bruce Willis type. 🙂
What I recently discovered is that masculine energy isn’t something that I can recognize just by looking at a man. Masculine energy, instead, comes up in what he DOES, how he treats me, how he relates to me – and that’s not only a characteristic of the man in and of himself, but a characteristic of the interaction between me and him.
In other words, it’s less about “finding” a masculine man out there and being feminine around him – it’s about me being feminine to begin with, and allowing the masculine energy to awaken in the man in front of me.
Right now, after the experience with this wonderful guy, I’m inclined to think that any healthy-minded man can be masculine, if the woman stands firm in her femininity and just provides the space for him to be masculine and take charge and sweep her off her feet.
So far, it’s really worked for me! It feels thrilling, and also a little scary because it’s so new, and because it’s so different than what I was used to up until now. This time I know I’m on the right track, so I’ll do my best to lean back and hold the space and smile and be appreciative and just enjoy all the time and effort he’s investing in me.
He’s planning a trip for the two of us now! I’m letting him plan everything, and he’s so happy to be able to provide this for me! Isn’t this delightfully amazing? Thank you, Helena, for teaching us all how to do it. 🙂