Step 1: Trigger A Sense Of “Positive Discomfort” In His Mind
You must be thinking, “How can discomfort be positive, and why would I want to make a man uncomfortable?”
Well, there’s an age-old psychological concept which states that as humans we value what we have to work hard for. Men are genetically programmed to value the very thing which isn’t easily attained.
Now I’m not saying that you should play “hard to get” to make a man chase after you. That’s a strategy that will backfire on you and can actually turn a man OFF, since he’ll be able to pick up in your vibe that it’s all about him.
What I’m talking about is a combination of pleasure and a very specific type of “discomfort” mixed in together. It basically means that you make him feel 90% pleasure mixed in with 10% of this special kind of “discomfort.”
This combination creates an intense feeling of passion within a man’s body.
It ramps up his emotional intensity towards you and makes him feel an intense attraction for you which is addictive and almost irreplaceable.
In fact, this concept works so well that he’ll actually ENJOY pursuing you because it will give him a special kind of feeling which will get him “hooked” on it.
Step 2: Appeal To The Masculine Part Of Him
Every man is born with a “protector” instinct. Since a man’s job early in history was to protect his family from predators, men evolved with this instinct and are genetically programmed to do this.
If you can awaken this masculine part of a man, he’ll feel a gut-level desire to protect you and do nice things for you.
Once this part of a man gets triggered, he’ll go out of his way to do loving things for you and will even feel obligated and responsible for your well being. In fact, this is one of the most little known secrets to truly making a man fall in love with you.
Most women feel that in order to get a man to love them, they should do a lot of nice things for HIM – such as wear sexy clothes or cook him elaborate meals – but the reality is, that can actually REPEL a masculine-energy man.
Since every man is a born hunter, he’s a provider at his very core and he’ll feel a lot of pleasure when you let him take care of YOU by appealing to the masculine part of him.
Step 3: Re-Frame His Point Of View
Have you ever seen a great guy who went completely crazy over a certain woman even though she wasn’t (in your opinion) that good looking or smart? Did you find yourself wondering what he sees in her?
The important point to note here is that in your point of view, she might not be that attractive or special, but that man is seeing her through a completely different lens. He’s seeing things in her that you might not see at all!
The good news is that you can use re-framing to influence the way a man sees you, so that he’ll find you absolutely irresistible, attractive, and exceptionally special – even if you don’t think you’re his “type.”
By making a few small and easy adjustments, you can make a man realize that you’re one of the most interesting women he’s ever met. He’ll see you as this special, one-in-a-million woman he’d be lucky to have in his life.
So to make a man feel intensely attracted to you, you have to trigger a sense of “positive discomfort” in his mind, awaken the masculine part of him, and re-frame his point of view.