Do you know there are things you can do to turn around practically any difficult situation with a man?
Some women rely on chance and hope that things will somehow get better with time. The truth is, these things usually don’t change unless you make some shifts yourself.
There are solid step-by-step plans you can apply to your specific situations right now that will give you instant results.
For example, let’s say your man has been ignoring you lately and spends all of his time working – and you want him to spend more time with you.
Most women would go about it in the following way:
Woman: “How come you never spend time with me anymore?”
Man: “I’m very busy right now, you know I have a lot of work to do.”
Woman: “You’re always working. It seems like I don’t even exist to you anymore.”
Man: “Can’t you see why I work so hard?”
Woman: “It feels like you don’t really love me anymore…”
This is where useless arguments start and both parties end up highly frustrated – it doesn’t get you anywhere. In fact, it usually pushes your man further away – the OPPOSITE of what you were hoping for!
Here’s the golden secret: In order to be understood, you have to first understand.
In other words, your man needs to see that you understand his situation BEFORE you try to make him understand yours.
Once he “gets” that you understand him, a masculine-energy man will instantly want to cater to your needs all on his own, without any resistance.
Instead of starting off the conversation coming from a place of “lack” – try this:
Woman: “You work so hard to provide for us, I really appreciate everything you’ve done for me. I feel so happy to have you in my life.”
Man: “Thank you so much! I’m glad to have you in my life too.”
Woman: “It would feel great to spend some time with you today. Is now a good time? If not, maybe we can do that later.”
Man: “Oh honey! I’m glad you’re so understanding. I’m almost done with this project. Give me a couple of hours, then we’ll go out to dinner. Sound good?”
Woman: “That would be amazing!”
See how easy things can be when you’re willing to start with appreciation before trying to MAKE your man give you something? You can turn a difficult situation into an easy one just by making a few simple adjustments with your words.
I want to note that this must feel 100% authentic to you. You can’t PRETEND that you appreciate your man when you really don’t just to get something you want from him – this will backfire on you because he’ll be able to pick that up in your vibe.
If you’re thinking, “But my personal situation is far more complicated and more intense than this. Do you have solutions for my situation too?” Yes, I absolutely do!