Has your ex decided that, out of the blue, he doesn’t want to be with you anymore? If you’d like to get back together with your ex, I want to reveal some of the biggest mistakes you might be making in trying to get him back.
Mistake #1: Calling Or Texting Him Over And Over Again
This is one of the biggest mistakes people make when trying to get back together with their ex. This is when you can’t stop calling or texting your ex to try to get him to talk to you.
You may start to panic when he doesn’t respond right away, or find yourself sitting by the phone waiting for it to ring. Or worse – you might end up calling, texting, or emailing him over and over again – sending a string of messages that seem to sound more and more desperate. The bottom line is to stop contacting him if he isn’t responding, or if he’s telling you to leave him alone.
Mistake #2: Over-Apologizing And Declaring Your Love
If you’ve made a mistake in your relationship, your first instinct might be to beg and plead for forgiveness, and tell your ex how much you love him. This hardly ever works because the person who initiated the break up is usually more emotionally detached from the situation as it is.
He might even be expecting you to “freak out” and get emotional, and what you want to do is the opposite. He’s also probably going to think that apologizing and declaring your love now is “too little too late.”
Mistake #3: Acting Out Of Jealousy, Rage, And Hurt
Essentially, you may feel emotionally out of control right now – and when your emotions are a wreck, you tend to say and do things you wouldn’t normally do (and that you may regret later). You may lash out at your ex, call him names, or try to guilt-trip him back into the relationship.
These emotional outbursts can severely damage a relationship if repeated over a period of time. It’s important to allow things to cool off if you feel compelled to act out in the heat of the moment.
How To Get Your Ex Back When You’ve Made These Mistakes
Even if you’ve made any of these mistakes, there IS hope! In the next post, I’m going to reveal a very simple strategy that will eliminate your chances of making any of these mistakes – and take you in the RIGHT direction in getting back together with your ex.
