In Part 1 of this post, I explained that uncovering your unique gifts and USING them in service to your life’s purpose is one of the BEST things you can do to transform your love life forever.
I also described how not acknowledging or using your gifts can become a massive Intimacy Barrier.
The first step to discovering if you have an intimacy barrier due to not embracing your gifts is looking at your external life. That will often tell you everything you need to know about your INTERNAL life.
Your external life is a reflection of what’s going on within you and how you feel about YOURSELF on the inside.
This includes the state of your health, the people you choose to spend time with, the way that you spend your time in terms of work and how much joy this brings to your life.
Take a look at your life around you, look at what’s being reflected back TO you. All of what’s going on around you on the outside is a mirror for you.
If things aren’t going well in your life or something feels “off”, it often appears that it’s everything outside of you that’s causing all of these problems – but what’s going on outside of you is being drawn TO you because of something inside of you.
Since everything is a vibrational “match,” what you need to do is uncover or reclaim your unique gifts and begin USING them – this will create a PROFOUND shift in your sense of self-esteem and self-love, and attract the right person and opportunities to you like a magnet!
When you start to see the true depth, power, and beauty of who you are, THAT’S what’s going to be “mirrored” back to you from the outer world!
That’s why if you really want to develop true intimacy with yourself and a fantastic man at a level you’ve never experienced, you can’t hide from your gifts.
When you uncover or reclaim that part of yourself and begin taking steps toward the life of your dreams, that’s when you’ll find that perfect “match” for you (or completely transform the relationship you’re in!). This is exactly how it happened for me, and for so many of my clients.