Here’s a guest post from Nick Bastion at Vixen Daily. Here’s what Nick has to say…
Wouldn’t life be easier if you could just know how guys felt about you?
No more wondering. No more agonizing over what he said (or what he didn’t say). No more worrying about crushing on a guy who doesn’t like you back.
Instead, you’d just be able to effortlessly KNOW whether a guy is interested in you you.
Welcome to that world!
Below are the 10 surefire signs that a guy is interested in you. If he’s displaying even a couple of these signs – it’s a sign that he’s got some sort of feelings for you.
Here they are – see how many of these signs you recognize from his behavior…
1. He Notices The Little Things About You
If he’s ever noticed when you got a different haircut, or changed how you do your makeup, or even got a new outfit… you’re in luck.
If a guy notices a small change in how you look – that means he’s paying attention to how you look on a regular basis. It means he’s interested in how you look – and he’s paying enough attention to see a small change.
That’s a great sign for his interest level in you – and if he gives you a compliment on the change – even better!
2. He Likes Teasing You
Gentle teasing coming from a guy is a sign that he’s interested in you. If he’s a younger guy – it’s pretty much a guarantee.
It’s baffling, but some guys just can’t express interest without gently teasing the woman they’re interested in.
Be cautious though – if he flirts that way with every girl, that could just be the way he flirts. If he only teases you – that’s a great sign!
3. He Copies Your Body Language
This one is more for the psychologists – so if you ever wanted to play FBI profiler, now’s your chance.
When a guy mirrors your body language back to you – it’s a HUGE sign that he likes you. The best part is, it’s totally unconscious… so even he won’t know that he’s giving away a sign that he’s interested in you.
If he touches his hair when you touch yours, and so on… you’ve got a guy who wants you and wants you bad.
4. His Friends Give It Away
Next time you’re out with him and you’re around his friends, watch his friends for clues.
Most of the time, if he’s interested in someone, his friends are going to know about it. And luckily for you – his friends are going to be much less careful about keeping the secret than he is.
So if they’re grinning at you, or making not so subtle “jokes” about you two, or even look like they know something you don’t – they probably do.
5. He’s Nervous When He’s Around You
This one is pretty obvious. People are only nervous when they’re worried about the outcome of something. If he’s worried about his time with you going well… then it’s pretty obvious how he feels about you.
After all, he’s not going to be nervous around a woman he doesn’t have feelings for.
So if you catch him fidgeting, or looking away quickly if you catch him looking at you – or just plain old looking nervous when he’s around you – that’s a great sign!
6. He’s Suddenly Interested In Your Passions
This is one of the oldest tricks in the book for getting closer to someone.
If he starts being “interested” in the stuff you love – like a TV show, or your favorite band – it shows that he’s looking for ways to connect with you, because he likes you!
7. He Finds Excuses To Touch You
A guy who’s interested in you is going to find excuses to get close to you and build intimacy with you. If he’s touching your arm or your back after making a joke that made you laugh – it’s a great sign.
At the same time, if he’s not flinching away or pulling away when you touch him – or if he prolongs the contact and finds a way for you to keep touching each other… well, you see where I’m going with this.
8. He Actually Listens To What You Say
I’m sure every person in the world has had the experience of telling someone a story, and getting really into it, only to have them look up at the end and reveal that they haven’t been paying attention to you. That feeling sucks!
Luckily, a guy who’s interested in you will never make you feel that way. He’s not going to risk pissing you off by pretending to listen to you – only to ask you about something completely unrelated afterwards.
He’s going to listen to the things you have to say – and actually respond to them thoughtfully.
9. He Loves Making Eye Contact With You
Want to know how a guy truly feels about you? Watch his eyes.
If he’s making eye contact with you, and holding it… and he’s doing that a LOT – that’s a sign that he likes you.
And if you look over at him, and catch him looking at you before he quickly glances away… that’s another dead giveaway.
10. His Body Language Gives It Away
If you really want to know how a guy feels about you – look no further than his body language.
And lucky for you – there are a few key body language signs that reveal whether he likes you (and that are so unconscious he’ll never notice he’s doing them).
For one, if he raises his eyebrows for a fraction of a second after looking at you – it’s a sign that he wants you. This is a quick one, so you really have to catch it in action to know for sure.
If he angles his feet towards you while you’re in a group, that’s another sign that he’s interested.
And finally, if he straightens out his outfit, smooths his hair, or otherwise grooms himself when you walk into the room – it shows that he cares about his appearance in front of you. I think you can guess what that means all by yourself!
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