One powerful way to create a deep heart-to-heart connection with a man is by expressing yourself in a way that will captivate him – by getting in touch with and expressing your feelings.
A man will feel intensely attracted and connected to a woman who’s in touch with her feelings and living in her feminine energy – when she’s fully experiencing life, slowing down and getting inside of every moment.
Many people think that this means talking about your feelings about the MAN or the relationship, but that’s not where you should start – not at first.
To start building the skill of getting in touch with your feelings, you’ll want start small, with everyday things – like the weather or something that happened during your day.
For most of us, expressing how everyday things FEEL to us is completely unnatural – it’s like learning a new language.
The good news is, most people will ask you the same questions all the time – so you’ll have a lot of opportunities to practice!
Men will usually ask you the same types of questions:
“How’ve you been?”
“How was your day?”
“What are you up to?”
Rather than simply stating the facts, such as:
“I’ve been good.”
“My day was alright. Work was busy.”
“I’m about to fall asleep.”
…try expressing how you FEEL instead:
“I’m feeling exhilarated with all the new projects I’m starting!”
“Work felt overwhelming today, it feels great to be home relaxing.”
“I feel so cozy in my bed, I’m about to drift off to sleep.”
Just the ENERGY of you standing there searching for a feeling is the sexiest thing in the world to a man!
This will get you into your feminine energy.
Your feminine energy is the KEY to attracting the right man for you and creating a deeply loving, passionate relationship that lasts a lifetime.
Getting in touch with how you’re feeling takes your focus OFF of him (which gets you out of your head) and onto yourself – which is what draws a man in and keeps his energy coming towards you.
When you’re up in your head thinking about a man, analyzing the situation or trying to “figure him out,” a man cannot connect with you or fall in love. But when you’re in your feminine energy and in touch with your feelings – he can!
Rori Raye’s tool of Feeling Messages is a fantastic way to practice getting in touch with and expressing your feelings (Rori is my BRILLIANT mentor who’s work completely changed my life – click here to sign up for her amazing free newsletters and learn how to have the relationship of your dreams!).
It may not seem like a big change, but using the word “feel” when you’re talking to a man triggers something in a man’s mind (and in yours!) and creates a heart-to-heart connection with him.
It signals to a man that you’re a feminine-energy woman who’s in touch with her feelings, which will connect you to his heart if he’s a masculine-energy man who wants to cherish your feelings.
This is one way to connect deeply with a man’s heart – since the way to connect to his heart is always through your OWN heart first!
If you’re ready to create a deep heart-to-heart connection with a man, Relationship Coach Leigha Lake and I have created a BRAND-NEW telecourse called Connect With His Heart.
We’re SO excited to have Rori Raye as a special guest on one of the calls! We’ll also be answering all of YOUR personal questions – click here to check it out and take advantage of the early enrollment discount!
Try expressing how you feel next time you’re talking to a man – or responding to an email or text message – and see what happens!