Have you ever wondered how to create the kind of deep connection with a man that would compel him to want to get as close as possible, and be the man to want to make you happy for the rest of your life?
The only thing standing between you and having the loving, committed relationship you want with a man is understanding exactly how a true heart-to-heart connection is created – and un-learning what NOT to do that keeps a man at arm’s length.
The secret to having the deep, connected relationship you want is actually very simple, yet completely counterintuitive.
The truth is, it’s not about “doing” something, employing some sort of strategy or working hard to try to make a connection happen.
Instead, it has everything to do with how connected you are to YOURSELF – meaning your own willingness to “be” with your own thoughts and feelings, especially when they don’t feel good to you.
The way to connect deeply with a man’s heart is always through your OWN heart first!
This is the pathway to a deeply connected, loving relationship that feels amazing to the both of you.
When you learn how to create a heart-to-heart connection with a man – you’ll feel more loved and fulfilled with him than you ever thought possible.
Connecting to a man in the deepest way possible starts with you being connected to yourself – your truest, most authentic self.
It’s ALWAYS about you and your energy – and the good news is, that’s ultimately the only thing you have control over!
Most of the time we’re not being our TRUE selves. We’re operating from a Fear Paradigm or a Lack Cycle, and this is how we end up settling in our lives.
When you live from a place of fear or lack, you’re actually disconnected from who you really are (who you really are IS love).
If you’re disconnected from yourself, you can’t have a deep connection with anyone else – let alone to the man you love (or the man you’re about to meet).
Living from a Fear Paradigm or Lack Cycle is more about avoiding loss in some way, rather than moving TOWARDS the love life of your dreams.
For example, when we live from a place of fear or lack we tend to ask ourselves (often unconsciously), “In what way am I most likely to lose?” – rather than, “In what way am I most likely to win?”
So much of the time we’re expecting things that might cause us pain or loss to happen. In a way we’re almost WAITING for disappointment or resistance to show up.
We think that anticipating things that might hurt us and trying to avoid them will keep us safe, but it usually doesn’t work out that way. This underlying energy is the way most people are living their lives.
Switching out of the Fear Paradigm or Lack Cycle is one of the most life-changing things you can do – and it’s actually the KEY to connecting with a man’s heart and having the relationship you want.
When you get out of this cycle and step INTO your empowered feminine energy, which involves trusting that things are always working out for you – and knowing that you CAN have the love and connection you desire – you won’t be concerned about “how” it’s going to happen.
This is the ultimate TRUST – and as you may already know, trusting and allowing are two very important feminine energy qualities that are crucial to connecting with a man’s heart and creating the relationship of your dreams.
You want to connect to your true self every day by creating habits that support you in going deeper into yourself – so you can begin trusting, allowing and receiving from a man (and in other areas of your life!).
When you learn exactly how to do this…
- You’ll surrender to what’s happening in your life right now moment-by-moment in order to become more empowered (especially in your love life!).
- You’ll slow down in order to access the resources available to you in the present moment.
- You’ll stop over-thinking and analyzing in order to become available to yourself AND a man (which is where love is!).
- You’ll stop focusing on a man, which actually brings him closer.
- You’ll create the space for a man to love you in the best way he knows how.
- You’ll stop feeling the need to “control” because you’ll realize life is carrying you towards your heart‘s desires (without all the struggle and effort!).
- You’ll open up and become vulnerable in order to create SAFETY with a man (this is actually the way to best protect yourself because when you do this, your intuition kicks in!)
Switching out of the Fear Paradigm or Lack Cycle will get you into your empowered feminine energy.
It signals to a man that you’re a feminine-energy woman who’s in touch with her feelings – which will connect you to his heart if he’s a masculine energy man who wants to cherish your feelings.
It also takes your focus OFF of him (which gets you out of your head) and onto yourself – which is what draws a man in and keeps his energy coming towards you throughout the course of your whole relationship.
When you’re stuck in fear or lack – or you’re up in your head analyzing a man or trying to “figure him out” – a man cannot connect with you or fall in love.
But when you’re in your feminine energy and in touch with your feelings, he can!