Re-Attract A Man Who's Withdrawing

Have you ever dated a man who’s pursuing you at first and seems really into you, only to have him fade away after a few weeks or months?
We’ve ALL been there – and it’s hard to know what to do. Should you call him just to say hello? Or text him something funny you saw that made you think of him?
Before you do that, READ THIS:
Part of what makes a man attracted to you is out of your control – it has to do with pheromones and brain chemistry.
But the other part of attraction IS very much under your control – there are things you can do and NOT do that will either ramp up his attraction for you or weaken it.
Some men run hot and cold quite often – they come closer and then pull away. They seem very into you at first, then they back off.

It’s what you do when he’s withdrawing that either brings him back and makes him feel more attracted to you, or causes him to back off completely – and stay there. 

The truth is – there’s nothing you can say or do that will make him “get into you” more. It has to do with the Energy Exchange.  
In other words, he’s either “feeling it” for you – and moving the relationship forward – or he’s not. And the only thing you can do under those circumstances is shift your vibe. 
So if your man has been withdrawing, rather than trying to strategize or have a talk with him to try to “get” him to step up in the relationship – you have to shift the entire dynamic. You have to LEAN BACK and shift the whole thing.
When you take your focus OFF of a man and stop obsessing about what’s going on in the relationship, it creates the space for him – and many other, possibly better men – to come towards you.
Shifting your vibe is also crucial for when a man DOES show up. If you’ve been sitting around waiting for him to contact you, he’ll be able to pick this up in your vibeand it will weaken his attraction to you. 

If you’ve been obsessing about why a man is withdrawing, you’re putting out a lot of mental effort – and anger and resentment build in direct proportion to the amount of effort you’re putting out in a relationship. 

You want to be as authentically warm and open as possible when the man you want shows up – you want to be an invitation. And you can’t possibly be warm and open if you’re angry at him for taking so long to contact you.
So practice forgetting about him for now and focusing on what’s right in front of you, and see how this shifts your vibe and gets him – and other men – moving towards you again!
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12 thoughts on “Re-Attract A Man Who's Withdrawing”

  1. I’ve experienced the re-attraction effect for myself, by doing exactly what you say here. The times when I was desperate for his attention and attraction, and for things to be the way they were at first when he couldn’t get enough of me, he ended up disinterested. Maybe he was picking up on my intensity and desperation, and I have to admit that that’s not attractive in anybody. The times when I *genuinely* didn’t care if he was interested or not because I was focused on what was going on in other areas of my life have been the times that suddenly he’s started chasing me.

  2. My boyfriend ended it coz i cant trust app i have his ex who i knew from years ago shes a bully and he cant cope with my sons beh he ended it 2 months ago im still heartbroken he wants friends only i cant too hurt for that so ive told him no contact i treated him so well yet his ex treated him like utter garbage yet ive just found out his back in contact with her im struggling to understand this pls help thanks

  3. I wish to express my passion for your kindness giving support to people who need help in this area. Your personal dedication to getting the message through was astonishingly practical and has empowered women like me to attain their aims. This warm and friendly report was so helpful, thanks a ton!

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  5. Youre so cool! I dont suppose Ive learn something like this before. So nice to find somebody with some authentic ideas on this subject. realy thanks for beginning this up. this web site is something that’s needed on the web, somebody with just a little originality. useful job for bringing something new to the internet!

  6. Yours words just healed my pain. I’ve been going through emotional stress and crying because my man is withdrawing and I’ve channeled all my energy trying to get him back but its not working. Thank you Helena for speaking to me and I promise to do all you have said. Love you.

  7. Helena, how do you do this when you’re married and are expecting a child from this man? I’m 5 months in a planned pregnancy and he has pulled away. I think he may be going through a midlife crisis.

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